This is about where I draw the limit for me. If she likes it or not, is her business, but I am not into total degradation and what appears to be someone wanting to hurt her. I guess I'm not into sadist/masochist stuff
Good comments responding to personal triggers that hold the things that have their hold on you. Everything is on a spectrum, latitudes and longitude between two polar opposites that always know where you are in the tension that is only as strong as the distance you choose to mark foolish ego and pride in claiming . Like/Dislike what you’re body senses is impotent for you to know